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If Your Friend has done these Few things for you in this Zindagi.. Never Let Them GO!

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”~ Lisa Kleypas, Blue Eyed Devil

If Your Friend/ Philosopher Or Guide does any or all of these things.. Never Ever Let them go:

  • Calming Influence : Even a Well Balanced person occasionally loses their cool. We all have the ability at times to become very emotional and tense owing to sometimes intrinsic reasons and sometimes because of what’s going on around us and we cant quite control it. If you’re feeling anxiety, rage, sadness or just heavy stress, a person who can see you struggling and knows how to COMFORT you is a definite keeper
  • Understanding Your Humour: Laughter is a quintessential part of life, not only as a delightful cherry-on-top during good times, but also as a way of coping when things are hard or going badly. If you have someone in your life who understands your particular brand of HUMOUR be it Sarcasm, Rhetoric or Burn filled and can add, share, compliment and have fun in the laughter with you, hold on tight!
  • Common Interests/Hobbies: Everyone needs some HOBBIES in their life. The Fun and leisure activities we do outside of work and career allow us to unwind and release stress and tensions that build up from the pressures of the daily grind.When your Friend can be a part of these passions and activities and enjoy them right along with you, everybody wins.
  • Mutual Respect: Respect for each other is the trivial part of any good bond and relationship. It is built by honesty, reliability and trust. If both can truly RESPECT each other as people, even in the heat of a difficult argument or stubborn disagreement, the relationship will be Strong and almost unbreakable.
  • Accountability: In a Friendship, One should always do their best to support the other and embrace whatever their Friend chooses to do, but sometimes the best and healthiest way to support someone is to be HONEST with them and call a spade.. A Spade. A True Friend would never lie to you simply to spare your feelings or avoid confrontation. If someone really loves you, they’ll call you on your Possible Mistakes, and if you really love them back, you should be receptive to their criticism and know that it comes from True caring and concern.

am writing about Jug in my life for the #DearZindagi activity at BlogAdda. The Person surely knows who he is.. 😉 

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A Wonderful Little Parable About Self-Belief

Once a businessman was up to his neck in debt, and could not see a way out of his situation. He was in the red to his creditors and his suppliers were demanding payment every day.

He went to the park to distract himself from his worries but all the same unhappy thoughts remained stuck in his head. The man dropped his head into his hands, casting about in his mind for ideas which could save his business from bankruptcy. Suddenly, an old man appeared before him.

“I see that something is troubling you“, he said. ”Won’t you share your thoughts with me?”

The businessman told him about his problems, about his lack of money and his bank’s refusal to give him some extra credit to promote his business. The old man listened without interrupting, and then said:

“I think that I can help you.”

He asked for the businessman’s name, wrote out a cheque and put it in the surprised man’s hand.

“Take this money. I’ll meet you here in exactly one year, and you can then give it back to me”.

The man didn’t have time to say anything before the old man had melted into the crowd.

The businessman looked at the cheque. In the space for the amount of money, the old man had written out a sum of $500,000, and below it was written the name — “John D. Rockefeller.” John D. Rockefeller. One of the richest men in the world!

“I can do away with all my problems in an instant!” he thought. But instead, the businessman decided to put the cheque in his safe. The thought of its existence alone gave him the strength he needed to work out a way to save his business.

With renewed vigour, he closed some good deals and managed to have the terms of his payments extended. He was able to make some big sales. Within a few months, he was out of debt and began earning money again. And a year later, he returned to the park with the cheque.

At the appointed time, the old man appeared. The businessman was ready to give the cheque back and to tell him about his successes, when a nurse came running over and grabbed the old man.

“I’m so glad I finally caught him!“ — she exclaimed. ”I hope he didn’t bother you. He often runs away from home and tells people that he is John D. Rockefeller”.

The businessman just stood there feeling stunned. Throughout the preceding year he had been busy as a bee doing business, buying and selling, in the belief that at any moment he could use that half a million dollars to save himself if the situation demanded it.

Suddenly, he realised that it wasn’t money — real or imagined — that had turned his life around. It had been his new self-belief that had given him the strength to achieve all that he wanted.

So remember, be proactive. At the crucial moment, belief in yourself always plays a key role.

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P.s.: The Story isnt mine, i read it on Social media and found it riveting to post it on my blog.

Original Link: https://brightside.me/article/a-wonderful-little-parable-about-self-belief-44155/

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Reflection of Chances: A Mirror’s Poem!

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Life is all about Chances, Deeds sometimes read into the meaning

Our Path can be cleared by Glances, Freedom is in it’s accurate Reading

 

Dwell on the Past, Learn Lessons and Create a new feeling

Listen to the Heart even if your expectations aren’t meeting

 

The Glitz, Glamour and Imagination can be intriguing

The Way ahead though is marked by Inspiring & creating

 

In The End All I’d say is…

“Attract what you Expect..

Reflect what you Desire..

become what you Respect,

and Mirror what you Admire.”

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My Destiny…!!

“There is Nothing in a Caterpillar that tells you its going to be a Butterfly”~Richard Buckminster Fuller

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yesterday has Passed

Today will be Tommorow’s History

But if we are really asked

What thou shall be will always be a mystery

 

What lies in front of us, is a moment

Which comes about without an advisory

What we do with it, is prudent

And paves the path of our future visually

 

The Mistakes of Yesterday are bygones

If What we do ahead is benevolent truly..

What I have been & what I am today is

Inconsequential to what I can really be..

 

When People become Promiscuously sublime

Being Epitome of Growth is like the Need for Affinity

Just like Rising from the Ashes everytime

Is the Phoenix’s Ultimate Destiny..

 

So Everytime You Fail in Life & its Lessons Mar

Vouch for trying harder and look for inspiration in the sky

What is essentially the End of the World for the Caterpillar

The One above has other Plans & Calls it a Butterfly…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“How does one become a butterfly?” she asked. “You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar.”~ Trina Paulus

*Inspired by a Tweet from Minissha Lamba & A Quote by Richard Bach

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