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If Your Friend has done these Few things for you in this Zindagi.. Never Let Them GO!

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”~ Lisa Kleypas, Blue Eyed Devil

If Your Friend/ Philosopher Or Guide does any or all of these things.. Never Ever Let them go:

  • Calming Influence : Even a Well Balanced person occasionally loses their cool. We all have the ability at times to become very emotional and tense owing to sometimes intrinsic reasons and sometimes because of what’s going on around us and we cant quite control it. If you’re feeling anxiety, rage, sadness or just heavy stress, a person who can see you struggling and knows how to COMFORT you is a definite keeper
  • Understanding Your Humour: Laughter is a quintessential part of life, not only as a delightful cherry-on-top during good times, but also as a way of coping when things are hard or going badly. If you have someone in your life who understands your particular brand of HUMOUR be it Sarcasm, Rhetoric or Burn filled and can add, share, compliment and have fun in the laughter with you, hold on tight!
  • Common Interests/Hobbies: Everyone needs some HOBBIES in their life. The Fun and leisure activities we do outside of work and career allow us to unwind and release stress and tensions that build up from the pressures of the daily grind.When your Friend can be a part of these passions and activities and enjoy them right along with you, everybody wins.
  • Mutual Respect: Respect for each other is the trivial part of any good bond and relationship. It is built by honesty, reliability and trust. If both can truly RESPECT each other as people, even in the heat of a difficult argument or stubborn disagreement, the relationship will be Strong and almost unbreakable.
  • Accountability: In a Friendship, One should always do their best to support the other and embrace whatever their Friend chooses to do, but sometimes the best and healthiest way to support someone is to be HONEST with them and call a spade.. A Spade. A True Friend would never lie to you simply to spare your feelings or avoid confrontation. If someone really loves you, they’ll call you on your Possible Mistakes, and if you really love them back, you should be receptive to their criticism and know that it comes from True caring and concern.

am writing about Jug in my life for the #DearZindagi activity at BlogAdda. The Person surely knows who he is.. 😉 

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Terribly Tiny Tales picked one of my 140 character fiction and published it.. it’s titled “World’s”

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I Miss My Blackberry!! :(

I have been using the Blackberry Phone with Vodafone’s services for some time now & Words cant tell u how imp. a part of me, using the internet on it is.. I am a bit of an addict with the BB Messenger, also use Word Press App to connect with you guys!

Amongst others i use Facebook for Blackberry, UberSocial for Blackberry (For Twitter), Whatsapp & a host of all other such applications!

When i bought the BB Torch & activated the Vodafone BB Plan, it was mainly started for the Emails & BBM.. but the quick ease of Living a Parallel Social Life with the Super Smart Phone took me in fully! My Phone is more like a Family Member to me.. The Poems i write & share with you, are drafted through my Phone as it gives me convinience to write my head quick & easy before i publish the final draft.. Same is the case for increasing my vocabulary as well.

Internet today & more so the Mobile Internet has given us busybee’s an opportunity to crack a joke, be naughty, flirt around & Prank with Close Friends & Family who may not be necessarily near you physically but are close to you. Facebook pioneered in it, as after Graduation & because of Reasons like Distance & a Busy Work Life.. it enabled us to cherish their special moments, Think using the internet with the tap of your thumb & being in touch, interacting with loved ones is at an all new level of Ease.

Using Twitter via the Uber Social app of Vodafone driven Internet also allowed me to interact with My Dear acquaintance turned Friend in the very Beautiful & Charming Minissha Lamba! Now the fact that she’s just a touch away, albeit sitting in her Workplace Mumbai or Shooting Elsewhere in the World, i know am just a click away.. & so does she!

A Lot of My Friends who are now living abroad & from the Bottom of my Heart am really sorry to, for not being in touch but always wished to.. The Connection is back up because of the Mobile Internet! Can there be a Better Feeling Ever?? Answer is a resounding Yes, When it enables the human within us to flirt around with the opposite sex gently or pushing it depending upon the medium! Confronting People who dislike your friends & call them names on a medium like Twitter & engage in trolling.. even though you may never ever meet them in reality! That’s the Power of Mobile Internet for me.. 😉 ;P

Yes! Here comes a Bummer.. My Blackberry Torch Crashed, Display not working, Phone was hung.. :(( Its been 3 days already without it, as it is under warranty & gone to its makers for Repair/Replacement, and, can you believe it Am already Missing it big time!!

Blackberry fellas.. Plz give me my big part of SocialLife (Fast Mobile Internet) back quickly!! Please..

Written as a part of my Appreciation as a user & a part of the Drive on indiblogger by: www.vodafone.in/fun

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Pro’s & Con’s of Social Networking!

What is this new age networking?

Is it actually friends mingling?

Or new people meeting..?

Better yet, a place for whiling..?

Answer is simple yet complexed

Time flies & others get perplexed.

We are in touch with ourselves & others

But at times too busy to understand it may be a curse

You feel Happy & feel sad,

Talk to yourself & appear Mad,

Talk to Others & at times feel Bad.

The Question isn’t whether Social Networking is good or bad

The question is whether we realize its 24 hours in a day that we can have

Spend it judiciously on all fronts & you are a winner

Overdo anything & you are the biggest sinner

Give due time to everything & everyone & u’ll have Peace which is Inner!

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