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Dreamer in me.. Seeking Answers!! Believer in me.. Finding them!! :)

“गुफ्तगू”

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फिर गुफ्तगू करने निकले हम दिल-ए-वफ़ा से..
कितने नज़्म जुड़े और टूटे इस तफ्सील के दरमियान,
शायद यही है खुमार इस्तकबाल के…
की रूह अपनी राह चले भूलके बेफ़िक्रियां,
मौसिकी उसी की है जो क़ुरबत मैं प्यार रखे..
फिर पैमाने की जुस्तजू में चाहे केहर मिले या आशना!!

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“वक़्त”

वक़्त के दिए सितम तो हम थक हार कर सेह भी लेते…
मुक़द्दर बदलने कि ख्वाहिश ने कम्बख्त मेरे “वक़्त” को ही बदल दिया!!

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“हम”

हर मर्ज़ को दवा नहीं मिलती
हर शख्स को वफ़ा नहीं मिलती
बस जागते है हर सुबह ये सोच कर
कि कब वोह और हम “हम” होंगे …

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THIS Is The Simple Reason Why We Lose Interest In People Who Show Too Much Interest In Us

So, why then do we feel uninterested in the partners who see this “Better ness” in us? The answer lies in the depths of our being.

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On a very deep level, there’s a small part of each one of us that believes we are not worthy of being loved. It is this insecurity that makes you place a lesser value on yourself.

So, when a person desires this lesser value, we naturally place a lesser value on them.

The natural train of thought eventually reaches the conclusion of “there must be something wrong with you for liking someone like me.”

We do not live comfortably with this mindset. We live comfortably in “the chase” of someone else, or in the completely rejection and heartbreak by someone else.

That is where we feel most at home. For whatever reason, we’d rather seek out rejection than have affection from a lesser-valued person.

As we can see, the natural inclination to avoid those who are interested in you happens for two main reasons: the need to better our offspring by partnering with someone who is “better,” and our own insecurities about how worthy we are of love.

The even bigger question now is: how can we use this understanding to better our lives and well-being? Having learned this, how many of us will start to give others a chance in lieu of rejection?

The ego is a hard thing to overcome, but if we can, we open ourselves up to a whole new realm of thinking.

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How many of us will strive to overcome insecurities for a chance at happiness?

Based on a Relationship article i came across at->

http://www.higherperspectives.com/lose-interest-2080894182.html?page=2

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A Wonderful Little Parable About Self-Belief

Once a businessman was up to his neck in debt, and could not see a way out of his situation. He was in the red to his creditors and his suppliers were demanding payment every day.

He went to the park to distract himself from his worries but all the same unhappy thoughts remained stuck in his head. The man dropped his head into his hands, casting about in his mind for ideas which could save his business from bankruptcy. Suddenly, an old man appeared before him.

“I see that something is troubling you“, he said. ”Won’t you share your thoughts with me?”

The businessman told him about his problems, about his lack of money and his bank’s refusal to give him some extra credit to promote his business. The old man listened without interrupting, and then said:

“I think that I can help you.”

He asked for the businessman’s name, wrote out a cheque and put it in the surprised man’s hand.

“Take this money. I’ll meet you here in exactly one year, and you can then give it back to me”.

The man didn’t have time to say anything before the old man had melted into the crowd.

The businessman looked at the cheque. In the space for the amount of money, the old man had written out a sum of $500,000, and below it was written the name — “John D. Rockefeller.” John D. Rockefeller. One of the richest men in the world!

“I can do away with all my problems in an instant!” he thought. But instead, the businessman decided to put the cheque in his safe. The thought of its existence alone gave him the strength he needed to work out a way to save his business.

With renewed vigour, he closed some good deals and managed to have the terms of his payments extended. He was able to make some big sales. Within a few months, he was out of debt and began earning money again. And a year later, he returned to the park with the cheque.

At the appointed time, the old man appeared. The businessman was ready to give the cheque back and to tell him about his successes, when a nurse came running over and grabbed the old man.

“I’m so glad I finally caught him!“ — she exclaimed. ”I hope he didn’t bother you. He often runs away from home and tells people that he is John D. Rockefeller”.

The businessman just stood there feeling stunned. Throughout the preceding year he had been busy as a bee doing business, buying and selling, in the belief that at any moment he could use that half a million dollars to save himself if the situation demanded it.

Suddenly, he realised that it wasn’t money — real or imagined — that had turned his life around. It had been his new self-belief that had given him the strength to achieve all that he wanted.

So remember, be proactive. At the crucial moment, belief in yourself always plays a key role.

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P.s.: The Story isnt mine, i read it on Social media and found it riveting to post it on my blog.

Original Link: https://brightside.me/article/a-wonderful-little-parable-about-self-belief-44155/

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I Miss My Blackberry!! :(

I have been using the Blackberry Phone with Vodafone’s services for some time now & Words cant tell u how imp. a part of me, using the internet on it is.. I am a bit of an addict with the BB Messenger, also use Word Press App to connect with you guys!

Amongst others i use Facebook for Blackberry, UberSocial for Blackberry (For Twitter), Whatsapp & a host of all other such applications!

When i bought the BB Torch & activated the Vodafone BB Plan, it was mainly started for the Emails & BBM.. but the quick ease of Living a Parallel Social Life with the Super Smart Phone took me in fully! My Phone is more like a Family Member to me.. The Poems i write & share with you, are drafted through my Phone as it gives me convinience to write my head quick & easy before i publish the final draft.. Same is the case for increasing my vocabulary as well.

Internet today & more so the Mobile Internet has given us busybee’s an opportunity to crack a joke, be naughty, flirt around & Prank with Close Friends & Family who may not be necessarily near you physically but are close to you. Facebook pioneered in it, as after Graduation & because of Reasons like Distance & a Busy Work Life.. it enabled us to cherish their special moments, Think using the internet with the tap of your thumb & being in touch, interacting with loved ones is at an all new level of Ease.

Using Twitter via the Uber Social app of Vodafone driven Internet also allowed me to interact with My Dear acquaintance turned Friend in the very Beautiful & Charming Minissha Lamba! Now the fact that she’s just a touch away, albeit sitting in her Workplace Mumbai or Shooting Elsewhere in the World, i know am just a click away.. & so does she!

A Lot of My Friends who are now living abroad & from the Bottom of my Heart am really sorry to, for not being in touch but always wished to.. The Connection is back up because of the Mobile Internet! Can there be a Better Feeling Ever?? Answer is a resounding Yes, When it enables the human within us to flirt around with the opposite sex gently or pushing it depending upon the medium! Confronting People who dislike your friends & call them names on a medium like Twitter & engage in trolling.. even though you may never ever meet them in reality! That’s the Power of Mobile Internet for me.. 😉 ;P

Yes! Here comes a Bummer.. My Blackberry Torch Crashed, Display not working, Phone was hung.. :(( Its been 3 days already without it, as it is under warranty & gone to its makers for Repair/Replacement, and, can you believe it Am already Missing it big time!!

Blackberry fellas.. Plz give me my big part of SocialLife (Fast Mobile Internet) back quickly!! Please..

Written as a part of my Appreciation as a user & a part of the Drive on indiblogger by: www.vodafone.in/fun

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